Watch Sexologist & WorkingMomLifeline.com Guest Blogger Trina Read on The Stephen and Chris Show

The highlight of my Toronto media tour to promote my new book, Till Sex Do Us Part, was being on The Stephen and Chris Show (a popular Canadian show).

Chris and I talk about my book as well as other sexual matters. We had a lot of fun and he’s absolutely delightful! Enjoy.

Dr. Trina Read interview.  

Click here for your free podcasts. Find out about Dr. Trina’s book, Till Sex Do Us Part here. Sexologist Dr. Trina Read is an author, sex coach, regular television and radio show guest, spokesperson, magazine columnist, former national sex newspaper columnist and internationally acclaimed speaker.

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Becoming a Sexy Temptress…After Baby…

I’ve never been big on dressing up in corsets and stockings. Probably a combination of growing up in a winter climate where houses are too cold to parade around in almost nothing…and a poor body image. My pear shaped body means tiny breasts don’t fill up the bustier cup and my ample thighs become muffin tops bulging over stay-up stockings.

Not quite the sexy look I was going for.

However, until I had my son, I was always big on lacy sets of bra and matching panties. At least I could wear them under my clothes and thereby get my money’s worth—unlike said muffin top stockings.

So there I was this weekend, freshly showered, ovulating and my son tucking into his long afternoon nap, when quite surprisingly I thought, “Wouldn’t it be fun to put on my black lacies?”

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Penis Fascination

I’m in the preliminary stages of toilet training my son. Twice a day we put him on his potty and twice a day we do our best to keep my son’s penis inside the potty.

You see, my son is absolutely fascinated and wants to look at his penis. He wants to touch his penis. He wants to do everything but put his penis inside the potty. And because there’s so much back and forth with the penis, he usually ends up with an erection making it harder (pun intended) to put his penis in the potty.

All this penis play started when he was six months old. One day during a routine diaper change, my son’s hands were whipping around and he accidently felt his penis. I could see on his little face that this indeed was a very happy discovery.

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Holiday houseguests having sex

Tis’ the season for house guests.

Family and friends traveling from all parts to spend time with one another over the holidays. Besides having the usual anxieties around getting the house guest-clean, making big portions of food, there’s the “Are we going to have sex?” dilemma.

My unscientific observation is that half the population are exhibitionists and don’t mind if the people in the next room know what’s going on; the other half of the population feels extremely self conscious and just can’t get up the nerve to do the horizontal mambo.

I’ve had both types as house guests. To be fair, given the spare bedroom is directly below my master bedroom, most of my guests have been discreet. But, of course, the few who were not stick out like a sore thumb.

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Even Sex Experts Have Their Sexual Biases

It’s my fifth year speaking at different Sex Shows. And with every show comes an interesting story.

 

This weekend, I met a young couple who were recently married and both virgins when they got married. They shyly came to me after my talk because she was experiencing pain during and after intercourse.

 

It’s always takes me by surprise when my sexual biases flair up. This couple could have told me they were into wild, kinky, hanging off the chandeliers sex and I wouldn’t have batted an eyelash. But them choosing to wait to have sex until marriage really pushes my buttons.

 

Of course, I didn’t let that show on my face or on my demeanor—I’ve developed an amazing poker face.

 

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Where’s the fun gone?

I popped in on my colleague, Susan Naylen Sorrell, who owns a wonderful, mom-friendly sex shop in called, A Little More Interesting.

With a mischievous glint in her eye she said, “Trina, you have to watch this!” And sent me home to review, the Pirates 2 Stagnetti’s Revenge; a four-disk porn epilogue that is a spoof on The Pirates of the Caribbean series.* (scroll down if you’re offended by porn)

Upon arriving home, my 13-month-old needed his nap and I threw the DVDs down wherever to take care of him.

A few hours later, like a flashing neon beacon, my husband found the Pirate porn movie and commented with happy surprise, “Where did you get this?” I told him. We talked and joked about the movie. I felt a flush of excitement thinking about watching it together and what fun it would be.

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